September 16

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Kinky vs. Poly vs. Swinger vs. Sex Worker

duh bitch

There are plenty of long, detailed, articulate rants about the details here – which I encourage you to seek out – but you guys know that being kinky does not mean you are inherently poly, right? Or that you swing? You can totally be monogamous and kinky, and many people are.

Likewise, are you aware that sex workers can be in monogamous relationships? We do that, too. Our jobs are our jobs. We can leave the multi-partner thing at the office.

Obviously, I, personally, am openly a sex-positive, adventurous, feminist, sex worker who does pretty much whatever she wants constantly – but while I may be representative of a significant number of people, you really shouldn’t assume that you know what the private lives of sex workers or kinksters are.

If you want to know, ask. If we don’t answer, it means it’s not your fucking business.

you dont know me!